What is Working the
Codependency is often elusive and sometimes has a devastating impact in our lives. For many, the Patterns and undesirable traits found in the Characteristics of being Codependent shows up in our lives negatively impacting our relationships - with others and perhaps more importantly, with ourselves.
It is Your Happiness - and Your Program
Working the Program is not a predetermined series of steps; rather, a spiritually based recovery based on the 12 Steps and 12 Traditions. The course your take in your recovery is an individual journey. We encourage you - to the degree you feel comfortable - to seek the input from those who seem to have a recovery similar to what you would like. Work at your own pace. Find happiness by working your program.
Working the Program is a personal choice that is not compulsory, not a requirement nor mandatory. It cannot be demanded or forced upon anyone that does not want to change or recover from her/his unwanted circumstances. Recovery takes a leap of faith that offers no guarantees or benefits that can and will make life more meaningful and worthwhile for perhaps the first time in life’s experiences.
It is More Than a Choice...
Choose to do as little or as much as you want to do, or nothing at all
The choice is up to you whether you know it or not, or want it or not
You can take what you need and leave the rest
You can make the choices that produce the best or worst consequences
The power and responsibility of choice is your hands– if you choose