You can find a sponsor in various settings such as Zoom meetings, in-person gatherings, retreats, or other recovery events. Attend conferences and listen to others' experiences to identify potential sponsors. If someone’s story resonates with you, consider approaching them for sponsorship.

 

Finding the Right Sponsor

 

As you listen to shared experiences, pay attention to those you connect with or admire. Trust your instincts when choosing someone to ask for sponsorship. If you're ready to engage in the program, asking for sponsorship can feel vulnerable, but it is an important step. While sponsors may share their contact information in meetings, not everyone will, and that's okay.

 

First Step

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Start by asking the potential sponsor for their phone number and asking your questions about the program. Discuss what sponsorship entails, typically focusing on their availability for Step work.

 

Trial Period Options

 

You may agree on a trial period of four to six weeks to determine if the sponsorship is a good fit. At the end of this period, reassess the arrangement.

 

Determining Compatibility

 

As you talk with a potential sponsor, assess your comfort level and compatibility. It's important to be realistic and not seek perfection; what truly matters is a commitment to recovery.

 

When to Get a Sponsor

 

Newcomers are encouraged to find a sponsor when ready to take their steps, while long-term members may seek one for renewed perspectives. Having a sponsor fosters accountability and support in the recovery journey.

 

Recovery is an ongoing process; sponsees and sponsors benefit from the experience.